Happy to Lose? by Guy Benson 22 Feb 2009 post a comment Share This: Did anyone else catch the "joy" Anne Hathaway feigned when it was announced that Kate Winslet had beaten her for best actress? She actually mouthed an enthusiastic "yes!" upon discovering that she had lost. I think it's classy to be genuinely happy for someone else's success, but I just cannot believe that Hathaway could truly be overjoyed by losing. Not sure why that bothered me so much. I'm sure it happens all the time.