If given the choice to hang out with your parents or your cooler older cousin most people will pick the cooler older cousin. The cooler older cousin gets to dress like a vagina, complain over not getting free birth control, and not bear the burden of their mistakes with Abortion on demand. And this is sexy????
The parents have to teach taking responsibility for your actions, justify saying no to destructive behavior, and champion values and morals. Yeah, not exactly sexy and if 2012 taught us anything, it's that sexy sells.