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Woman Who Married Herself Admits Friends Found Wedding 'A Bit Narcissistic'

Woman Who Married Herself Admits Friends Found Wedding 'A Bit Narcissistic'

An Englishwoman has taken self-love to its ultimate extreme by marrying herself in an “incredibly empowering” ceremony attended by almost 50 of her friends.

Grace Gelder married Grace Gelder earlier this year at an “idyllic farmhouse in rural Devon”. Her parents were not present – “mainly for logistical reasons” – but, according to an interview in the Guardian, they did send “supportive texts throughout the day.”

Some of Ms/Mrs/Mr Gelder’s friends suggested “in a light-hearted way” that perhaps the exercise was “a bit narcissistic”. But she herself decided that she was “completely comfortable” with her “motivations.”

It helped that she had recently been “on a journey of personal development using meditation, dance and performance” to increase her “self-awareness,” especially a Shakti Tantra programme “focused on sexuality and how this was bound up with making agreements with yourself and other people.”

Furthermore, she benefited from the support of her close friend Tiu, a “truly wise and wonderful woman” who put her mind at rest when ever she harboured thoughts like “[is] it just some vainglorious stunt.”

Gelder proposed to Gelder on a park bench on Parliament Hill in London last year, inspired by a line from a Bjork song she had heard at university while studying performance art. The song, called Isobel, went: “My name’s Isobel, married to myself.” She thought: “crazy as it sounds, I totally get that. It’s about making this pact or promise to yourself and then somehow enacting that in how you live your life from that day on.”

On the big day, Gelder wore a vintage wedding dress bought in the local market and a ring to bring home the “idea of commitment, sealing the deal if you like.” After making her vows (“which were mostly about me promising to take more risks in matters of the heart”), she kissed the bride/groom/whatever in a mirror.

Her self-married status, she is aware, carries no legal standing. But one happy result of this is that in the unlikely event she ever tires of her own company – “just because I married myself doesn’t mean that I’m not open to the idea of sharing a wedding with someone else one day” – she will not technically qualify as a bigamist.

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