First Lady Michelle Obama shared some thoughts about women versus men during a conversation with former First Lady Laura Bush at the U.S Africa Leaders Summit in Washington D.C.

Obama explained that as First Lady it was important to remember to use the position to highlight their personal interests.

Obama cited Laura Bush as a First Lady that acted with a level of “grace and kindness and compassion.”

The First Lady said that she was aware of all the criticisms that came with the office.

We’re elected by one man,” Bush replied.